DEPARTMENT OF THE ARMY OFFICE OF THE STATE CHAPLAIN, NEBRASKA 2433 NW 23TH STREET LINCOLN, NEBRASKA NGNE-SCO 3 December 2012

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1 DEPARTMENT OF THE ARMY OFFICE OF THE STATE CHAPLAIN, NEBRASKA 2433 NW 23TH STREET LINCOLN, NEBRASKA NGNE-SCO 3 December 2012 MEMORANDUM OF INSTRUCTION SUBJECT: Strong Bonds Couples and Singles Training Omaha, NE 1. Nebraska will be hosting a Strong Bonds Couples and Singles Training Event February There are 20 seats available for 10 couples/single parents in the marriage event and 20 seats available for the Singles Event. The State Chaplain Office reserves the right to prioritize attendees based on participants who are deploying or who have returned from deployment in the past year and those who have not attended in the last fiscal year. 2. LOCATION: Downtown, Omaha, NE 3. REGISTRATION FEE: None 4. REGISTRATION: Participants must register by completing the attached registration form (Families or Singles) and submit to CH(MAJ) Scott Ehler by 08 February (Attachments) 5. DUTY UNIFORM: Military and Civilian Personnel: Civilian Casual 6. DUTY STATUS: Military Personnel are at the unit s discretion to allow the soldier to either be on orders for points only or with pay (IDT, AT). All personnel must be in a status 7. HOURS: Friday , Saturday , Sunday SIGN IN ROSTER: There will be a sign-in roster to track attendance. 9. LODGING: Will be contracted by the NENG at the local per diem rate in Omaha, NE at no cost to the participant 10. RESTAURANTS: Meals during training hours will be provided. Meals outside of training hours are on your own and will not be reimbursed. 11. TRAVEL TO TRAINING: POV mileage to the training location will not be reimbursed.

2 12. POC INFORMATION: Registration: CH(MAJ) Scott Ehler LOI / Class Information: CH (MAJ) Scott Ehler (scott.r.ehler.mil@mail.mil). RODNEY A. ARMON Chaplain (COL) USA State Chaplain

3 Soldier s Information Nebraska National Guard Single Soldier Registration Form February 2013 Last Name First Name Rank SSN Unit (if a military member) Branch of Service - - Day Phone ( ) - Address Home Address Street Address Apartment Number Mailing Address (if different from address above) If Childcare is provided names, ages, special considerations of children attending Name Age Special Considerations When the registration form is received, the Chaplain s office will give the Soldiers name to the hotel for booking purposes. SOLDIER MAY BECOME RESPONSIBLE FOR THE TOTAL COST OF THE HOTEL ROOM IF SOLDIER IS A NO SHOW OR CANCELS WITHIN 24 HOURS OF THE EVENT. To register, this form to: scott.r.ehler.mil@mail.mil

4 Strong Bonds (7 Habits for Highly Effective Soldiers) Schedule Friday: Travel Day Hotel Check In Evening Session (Working Dinner ) Saturday Morning Session Sunday Workshop Introductions (what is this all about) Basics for a Successful Soldier 1930-UTC Habit 1 - How Can I Have More Control in My Life - How Can I Have More Control of Me Finish Habit 1 (Working Breakfast ) - Pause, Think, Choose Habit 2 - Begin With the End in Mind - Personal mission statement - Personal flight plan Habit 3 - Put First Things First - Big Rocks, Little Rocks - Steps to Goal Planning Habit 4 (Working Lunch ) - Think Win Win - The Four Ways of Thinking Habit 5 - Seek First to Understand, Then to be Understood - What Closes the Door to Listen for Understanding - How Can You Reflect Feelings - How Can I Talk to be Understood Habit 6 - Synergize - Creative Cooperation Creating Synergy Habit 7 (Working Breakfast) - Sharpen Your Saw - Course Training Assessment Hotel Check out - Travel Home

5 Husband s Information Nebraska National Guard Family Training Registration Form February 2013 Last Name First Name Rank SSN Unit (if a military member) Branch of Service Day Phone Address Wife s Information Last Name First Name Rank SSN *For ITO*(Encrypt) Unit (if a military member) Branch of Service Day Phone Address Are you a duel Military couple? Yes No Home Address Street Address Apartment Number Mailing Address (if different from address above) When the registration form is received, the Chaplain s office will give the Soldiers name to the hotel for booking purposes. SOLDIER MAY BECOME RESPONSIBLE FOR THE TOTAL COST OF THE HOTEL ROOM IF SOLDIER IS A NO SHOW OR CANCELS WITHIN 24 HOURS OF THE EVENT. To register, this form to: scott.r.ehler@mail.mil If Childcare is provided names, ages, special considerations of children attending Name Age Special Considerations

6 MARRIAGE ENRICHMENT TRAINING AGENDA FRIDAY: Travel Day Hotel Check In Evening Session SATURDAY: Morning Session Afternoon Session SUNDAY: Morning Session Introduction / Risk Factors (Working Dinner ) Communication Danger Signs Filters (Working Breakfast ) Problem Solving Talking Without Fighting Video (Keys to Incredible Sex) Events, Issues, Hidden Issues (Working Lunch ) Core Beliefs Video (How to stay married and not kill anybody) Couples Free Time Surviving Pre-deployment, Deployment, and Reintegration (A Group Discussion)(Working Breakfast and Working Lunch) Hotel Check out - Travel Day