LIFE IN BALANCE: RELAXATION & STRESS RELIEF Presented by Military & Family Life Counselors
OBJECTIVES What is work/life balance? Identify your stressors Signs and symptoms of stress Stress management strategies Stress reduction Relaxation skills Copyright Department of Defense 2014. All rights reserved. 2
IS THIS YOU? Copyright Department of Defense 2014. All rights reserved. 3
WHAT IS WORK/LIFE BALANCE? Necessary for everyone On-going process Responding to multiple demands Balancing children s activities Balancing career and family Copyright Department of Defense 2014. All rights reserved. 4
THINGS THAT GET IN THE WAY External Stressors Work School Community Internal Stressors Attitudes Beliefs Expectations Behaviors Copyright Department of Defense 2014. All rights reserved. 5
IDENTIFY PRIORITIES Clarify your values Create personal mission Establish goals Copyright Department of Defense 2014. All rights reserved. 6
ENERGY WHEEL Work Personal Relationships Life Maintenance Self Nurturing Copyright Department of Defense 2014. All rights reserved. 7
THE BODY & STRESS Under stress your body may have: Increased pupil dilation Perspiration Increased heart rate and blood pressure Rapid breathing Muscle tension Increased mental alertness/focus Decreased/stopped digestion Copyright Department of Defense 2014. All rights reserved. 8
SYMPTOMS OF STRESS Physical Emotional Mental Behavioral Copyright Department of Defense 2014. All rights reserved. 9
UNHEALTHY STRESS MANAGEMENT Alcohol and/or other drugs Food Displaced anger/frustration Distorted thinking Overspending Copyright Department of Defense 2014. All rights reserved. 10
HEALTHY STRESS MANAGEMENT Change your behavior Change your lifestyle Change your thinking Create social support Copyright Department of Defense 2014. All rights reserved. 11
CHANGE YOUR BEHAVIOR Be assertive Get organized Vent emotionally Use humor Use diversion and distraction Copyright Department of Defense 2014. All rights reserved. 12
CHANGE YOUR LIFESTYLE Healthy diet Stop smoking Reduce alcohol consumption Exercise Sleep Pursue leisure activities Engage in active relaxation Other stress reduction techniques Copyright Department of Defense 2014. All rights reserved. 13
CHANGE YOUR THINKING Cognitive reframing Examine your beliefs Copyright Department of Defense 2014. All rights reserved. 14
COGNITIVE REFRAMING Re-frame failures as new opportunities Challenge the shoulds Avoid all or nothing thinking Be compassionate with yourself Focus on the present Embrace optimism Copyright Department of Defense 2014. All rights reserved. 15
EXAMINE YOUR BELIEFS INFLUENCING REACTIONS TO STRESS Perfectionism Social Mirror Irrational Beliefs How do these beliefs affect you? How do these beliefs affect others? Family Rules, Messages Expectations Copyright Department of Defense 2014. All rights reserved. 16
CREATING SOCIAL BELIEFS Identify your social support needs Identify helpful/non-helpful behavior Communicate your needs Copyright Department of Defense 2014. All rights reserved. 17
STRESS HARDINESS Having a strong commitment Seeking change as a challenge Having a sense of control Participating in creative activities Having a strong support network Copyright Department of Defense 2014. All rights reserved. 18
THE ABC S OF STRESS REDUCTION A stress reduction action plan includes: A = Awareness B = Balance C = Control Copyright Department of Defense 2014. All rights reserved. 19
ACHIEVING BALANCE Think Positively Work Efficiently Copyright Department of Defense 2014. All rights reserved. 20
RELAXATION Relax your stress triangle Meditate Take a deep breath Progressive muscle relaxation Exercise Visualization Laughter Copyright Department of Defense 2014. All rights reserved. 21
EMPHASIZE THE FUNDAMENTALS Copyright Department of Defense 2014. All rights reserved. 22
LIFE BALANCE IS an on-going process, not a permanent state Copyright Department of Defense 2014. All rights reserved. 23
WHEN TO SEEK HELP If stress symptoms are interfering with your life and stress reduction methods aren t working, you may want to seek help from: Military Community Services A Chaplain Behavioral Health Services Copyright Department of Defense 2014. All rights reserved. 24
SUMMARY Recognizing stressors and stress symptoms is a first step in working toward life balance It s important to examine priorities and decide which are most important Practicing relaxation and other stress reduction methods can help to change your perspective and achieve a more balanced life Seek help if stress symptoms persist Copyright Department of Defense 2014. All rights reserved. 25
QUESTIONS?
RESOURCES Military Community Services Chaplain and Local Clergy Military OneSource (800) 342-9647 TRICARE www.tricare.mil Behavioral Health Services Copyright Department of Defense 2014. All rights reserved. 27
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